I didn’t do it! It’s not my fault! He made me do it! It’s her fault!
Remember that childhood anguish—unable to admit to a failure or mistake—wanting very much to lay the blame on someone else. Regrettably, not only children struggle with this problem. There are those who can never embrace their own failure.
Failure is a natural, necessary part of being human. You know the awful feeling. There’s no getting around it. We all fail to one degree or another at one time or another. Many of us fail every day. We may not think of those little “kerfuffles”—the messes we make or problems we cause—as failures, but in essence that is what they are.
Some failures are bigger than others, more public, more humiliating, attaching more stigma, but regardless of whether or not our failure is microscopic or earth-shattering, we must respond in some way. We can, as many do, make excuses for ourselves, and blame other people, or we can own our failure. “I made a mistake. It is my fault.” Those failures whether large or small need not ruin us. We can learn from our failures, and move past them to better things.
We cannot control whether difficult things happen in life, but we can control how we react.
President Truman had a sign on his desk that said, “THE BUCK STOPS HERE!” The phrase referred to the notion that the president has to make the decisions and accept the ultimate responsibility for those decisions. That’s a great example for all of us.
Look into the background of well known successful figures, and you will find gigantic failures. Walt Disney, one of the most creative geniuses of all time was once fired from a newspaper because he was told he wasn’t creative, but he kept trying until he became a household name.
Think of Thomas Edison, the inventor of the light bulb and so many other things. He was hearing impaired. He was a fidgeter. He had only three months of schooling. Then his teacher said he was too stupid to learn.
What about Bill Gates? He was a Harvard University dropout, and his first business failed. Now he is the wealthiest man in the world. He admitted his failure, learned from it and moved on building “Microsoft,” and becoming a billionaire at the age of 31.
Everyone knows Hershey’s chocolate, but when Milton Hershey started his candy production career, he failed at three separate ventures. However, believing in his vision of milk chocolate for the masses, he founded the Hershey Company and became famous in the candy industry.
SO, I CAN SAY, “I HAVE FAILED, BUT I AM NOT A FAILURE!”
It is great to celebrate success, but it is more important to learn the lessons taught by failure. I think you can have most of the things you want in life if you treat failure as a part of the learning process. Failure is a stepping stone toward success.
On Sunday morning, my pastor preached about one of life’s all-time greatest failure, St. Peter, one of Christ’s Apostles. Peter was one of Jesus’ Inner Circle. Jesus took Peter, James, and John to places and exposed them to experiences the other disciples did not have.
On the night that Jesus was arrested prior to His crucifixion, he told Peter that he, Peter, would deny Him three times before the rooster crowed. Yet Peter declared adamantly, “Though I die with you, yet I will not deny you.” (Matthew 26:35)
Yet, because of unprecedented fear, Peter failed big time. To the serving maids and others, he denied with cursing that he did not even know Jesus. When that early morning rooster crowd, Peter realized his terrible failure, and went out and wept bitterly.
Peter loved Jesus. He didn’t plan to fail, but when He did, he didn’t give up, and Jesus didn’t give up on Peter. On the shores of the Sea of Galilee, following His resurrection, Jesus restored Peter forgiving him, and healing his wounded heart. He called Peter and the other Apostles to “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.” (Mark 16:15)
Wow! What a success Peter became!
He was one of the boldest of the apostles preaching the gospel for thirty-three years. He suffered persecution, imprisonment, and beatings becoming a willing, obedient servant of the Lord even to his death by Crucifixion.
PETER FAILED BUT HE WAS NOT A FAILURE!
You may feel like a total failure. You’ve made a mess of things, but God hasn’t given up on you. If you are willing to embrace your failure and learn from it, if you are willing to say “I’m sorry, He will forgive and restore you. He still has a plan for your life. God will make you what He wants you to be.
YOU CAN STILL BE A SUCCESS IN CHRIST!
REMEMBER, THE SUN WILL COME OUT TOMORROW!